Life Skills Coaching: FEEL it!

FEEL it! is for every one...

....even if you don't like horses, are scared of them, or just have never met a horse you liked!

FEEL it! : Equine-Facilitated Experiential Learning is life skills coaching as you have never experienced it before. You can now choose a Friesian horse as your personal life coach.

Even if you have never been near a horse...

and especially if you are married or related to a horse-mad person!

You know there must be an easier way...if only you can find it...or find the time to go and look for it!

FEEL life skills coaching will show you the way.

Pretending to be something you are not is a useless exercise around horses. They look straight through the walls we have built around ourselves for protection against a hostile world. They mirror our innermost fears and passions.

Once you get used to the idea, it feels infinitely liberating.

You will get more perspective, learning, and support than you would be able to muster on your own.

In one FEEL life skills coaching session you can make as much progress as in ten sessions in the traditional therapeutic environment.

Is having it all really possible?

Most certainly, and the first step is the simple and empowering decision to sculpt your own life with the help of FEEL life skills coaching.

Top ten ways FEEL can increase your confidence

1. You get non-judgemental support

2. You get unconditional acceptance

3. You get unlimited encouragement

4. You get to know yourself better

5. You learn how to communicate better

6. You get insight into other people's behaviour

7. You get 100% focussed attention

8. You develop new coping skills

9. You rediscover your sense of humour

10. You learn to listen more and talk less

Sometimes we are a bit slow to get the message. Problems (and sometimes solutions too)have to become gigantic and 'in our face' before we'll stop procrastinating and pay attention to them. The very size and presence of a horse compels us to set clear guidelines to create safe interaction.

Why, then, when we deal with each other, are these basics so often neglected or deemed unimportant?

We will work with you to design a customised learning program, geared to help achieve your goals and desired results. Horses can teach us a great deal about learning and reaching results. After all, isn't that what life skills coaching is all about? Learning and getting results around the issues we face?

When horses learn that they can trust you to do what you say you are going to do...

and ask clearly for what you want, they will almost always give you what you ask for.

The FEEL programs are not pure psychotherapy, though the core values are similar to those found in Equine Assisted Psychotherapy (EAP) programs.

And experiential learning occurs when carefully chosen practical experiences with the horses are supported by reflection and critical analysis.

You will be encouraged to take the initiative, make decisions and be accountable for results.

Throughout the experiential learning process, you will be actively engaged in posing questions, investigating, experimenting, being curious, solving problems, assuming responsibility, being creative and constructing meaning.

You'll be engaged intellectually, emotionally, socially, and/or physically. This multi-level involvement ensures that the learning experience is authentic.

Start a NEW LIFE...Today!

If you live in the Nottingham area in the East Midlands, or even the West Midlands, you can now choose a Friesian horse as your personal life coach (Lady Belle herself, if you prefer!).

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At the moment there is a waiting list for appointments until the end of December...but if you are interested, please leave your name and e-mail below (see privacy policy at foot of page)...and I'll get back to you asap.

Feel is equally effective for riders as for non-riders...in fact, it works better if you have no previous horse experience.

Try to FEEL it! if you want to find out why your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, son, daughter or best friend is so passionate about horses and riding.

East and West Midlands Life Coaching now include FEEL life skills coaching.

Be kinaesthetic...FEEL it!

If you live too far away, don't despair! You can still order an Equestrian Life e-book or e-course! featuring Belle, Beau and all the others... either about stress, weight loss or confidence building.

You can explore various other life coaching subjects, like SMART goal setting or if you like horse quotes like this one:

The essential joy of being with horses is that it brings us in contact with the rare elements of grace, beauty, spirit, and fire. ~Sharon Ralls Lemon

You can subscribe to the Equestrian Quotes e-zine for a weekly boost from inspiring, heart-warming equestrian quotes. And find out how horse quotes can help you master riding skills faster.